你在帮他？
当他人身处困境的时候，你主动帮助他渡过难关，你就是在支持他，或者你不会想到，你在支持他人的时候 ，你也在帮助你自己 ， 拒绝对他人施以援手，其实也是拒绝帮助自己。
you support someone when you willingly step forward to help him through a challengning time , yet the great irony is that when you support others , you are also , in fact , supporting yourself .
但是你是真的在帮助他吗？
你的医生是在帮助你，如果你不如实反映你的状况的话他没法帮你诊断和提供建议。
Your doctor is there to help and if you are not honest they can't give you their expert diagnosis and recommendations for treatment.
第三仍然是互惠原理，通过“降级”，看起来你是在帮他的忙。
The third is again the reciprocity principle; by "moving down", you are seen as having done him a favour!
所以，你和他之间一定要有这样一种联系、一种互相理解、一种感觉：他和你目标一致，而不是你在帮助他前往他所想到达的地方。
So you've got to really [have] that bond, that understanding, that feeling that he's in it with you, as opposed to you're helping him get to where he's going.
“我们在帮你治病，”他说，点点头，“你正在试图结束痛苦。”
"You're getting help, " he says, nodding. "And you're trying to end the pain."
年幼的天使被激怒了责问年长的天使你怎么能让这种事情发生呢？第一家人，他什么都有了，你还在帮他。
The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel how could you have let this happen? The first man had everything, yet you helped him, she accused.
他总在帮助我，我会同样来回报你的。
你的父亲在帮忙吗？不，他没有。他在工作。
杂货店的经理是一位叫肯的绅士，他有一天走过来跟我说：“你对于我们现在帮助顾客挑选商品的做法有什么看法呢？”
The manager at the time, a gentleman named Ken, came up to me and said, "What do you think about this process we're using here in the front end to tell people to pick up their groceries?"
杂货店的经理是一位叫肯的绅士，他有一天走过来跟我说：“你对于我们现在帮助顾客挑选商品的做法有什么看法呢？”
The manager at the time, a gentleman named Ken, came up to me and said, "What do you think about this process we're using here in the front end to tell people to pick up their groceries?"
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