梅森先生说：“她刚开始时真的没想过要有什么恋爱关系。”
Mr Mason said: 'She didn't really think anything romantically to start with.
阿隆博士说，“这就是为什么恋爱中的人会彻夜不眠的畅谈，那种感觉的确让人激动和亢奋。
That’s why people who fall in love stay up all night talking and it feels really exciting.
《有感情的大脑》一书的作者，神经科学家勒都克斯说："一只鲸可以表现得像在恋爱中一样，但即使它们真的有什么感情的话，人们也无法证明这种感情的存在。"
“ A whale may behave as if it's in love, but you can't prove what it's feeling, if anything,” says neuroscientist LeDoux, author of The Emotional Brain.
在这个名为‘经营’的恋爱游戏里，我们学到了什么呢？
So what have I learned in this dating game we call business?
如果失恋了没有悲伤，恋爱大概就没有什么味道。
If the lovelorn with no sorrow, love probably will not have much flavor.
我第一次真正恋爱是什么时候？
它关系到选择什么才是对你最重要的，边工作边生活、恋爱、应变、争论或者心烦意乱，用健康的方式使你感到拥有权利。
They’re about choosing what’s important to you and working to live, love, process, argue, and be upset in healthy ways that make you feel empowered.
“现在想起来，我很清楚我当初在做什么，我跟一个游戏玩家恋爱，而这就是唯一的结果。”最近她对我说。
"Back then I just figured I was dating a gamer, and that's how it was going to be," she said to me recently.
如果这个人之前曾谈过20次恋爱，他的生活模式是什么？上一段恋情结束后又发生了什么改变？
Has this person previously been involved in 20 relationships, if so, what's the pattern, what's changed since the last relationship?
通过对刚谈恋爱的人的核磁共振大脑扫描图研究，科学家们了解到了许多关于“爱”的科学：为什么爱是那么强大，为什么被拒绝是那么的悲痛。
By studying MRI brain scans of people newly in love, scientists are learning a lot about the science of love: why love is so powerful, and why being rejected is so horribly painful.
如果想在恋爱关系的某一阶段改变什么，那就改变自己的性格或行为，而不是对方的。
If you want something to change in any stage of a loving relationship, make it your own traits or actions - not your partner's.
单身可以使你更深切的认识到你想成为什么样的人，不是恋爱关系定义的那种人。
Being single can give you a deeper awareness of who you really are - not someone as defined by a relationship.
人为什么会在恋爱中撒谎？
当他们知道为什么他们会恋爱以及为什么他们如此心碎，他们会接受新的治疗。
By understanding why they fall in love and why they are so heartbroken, they can use new therapies.
我第一次真正恋爱是什么时候？哦，我还真不知道自己有没有真地爱过(轻笑)可悲呀！
When did I first fall in love? I don't know if I was ever in love (small laugh). That's sad!
女性在一段恋爱关系中需要的是什么？
她和谁恋爱是娱乐头条，她穿什么会被全球时尚界津津乐道，她代言什么什么就会成为热销品。
These days who she's dating is big entertainment news, what she's wearing is dissected by fashionistas around the globe, which products she is endorsing fuels business stories.
她的恋爱教练正在帮她在网上展示自己，并且教她更清楚地说明她想找什么类型的人。
Her flirt coach is helping her present herself online — and explain who she's looking for — more coherently.
如果之前的恋爱都不算恋爱，那我不知道那是什么了。
If the previous love is not in love, then I do not know what it is.
我爱我的爸爸，我爱我的家。你恋爱过吗？是什么样子的啊？
I like my dad, I like my family. Did you fall in love? What was it like?
我们的文明告诉我们，恋爱和关系只和我们能够从中得到什么相关。
Our culture tells us that dating and relationships are only about what you can gain from it.
这就是为什么高中时代的恋爱很少能有结果。
要是说，他不愿意跟我相爱，就是因为我没有钱，那么，他一向不关心的一个姑娘，一个同样穷的姑娘，他又有什么理由要去跟她谈恋爱呢？
If it was not allowable for him to gain my affections, because I had no money, what occasion could there be for making love to a girl whom he did not care about, and who was equally poor?
等一下。我们可以从中学到些什么。钻研人员比较了50对包办婚姻的夫妻和50对自由恋爱的夫妻，那么他们有什么发现呢？
Hold on a SEC. We can learn something here. What do researchers find when they compare at 50 arranged marriages and 50 "love" marriages?
恋爱中你们都会半途去喜欢我身边的朋友，我算什么。
In love you will be halfway to like my friends, I consider as what.
恋爱中你们都会半途去喜欢我身边的朋友，我算什么。
In love you will be halfway to like my friends, I consider as what.
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