真相是我们无法拥有任何人在我们尚不能接受改变的自己，同时无助的依赖于拥有本身以及认为爱人就是那个需要拥有和抱住的人。

The truth is, we can't have anyone, when we can't even cling on to our changing selves, while we cling helplessly to clinging itself, to the idea that the beloved is someone to have and to hold.

youdao

男人爱人以色，是不能改变的事实。

Men wife in color, is not to change the facts.

youdao

男人爱人以色，是不能改变的事实。

Men wife in color, is not to change the facts.

youdao