你不停地安慰自己：这个人是真的爱我，只不过怕被伤害而已。
You tell yourself that this person really does love you but is afraid of being hurt.
譬如，我在努力学习不再不停地把现在遇到的问题归咎于那些在我小时候，尚没有能力自己从伤害中站起来的时候伤害过我的人们。
For I did learn to stop the constant blaming of present problems on those who harmed me when I was so young and unable to stand up for myself.
她必须一刻不停的保护自己，免受现实的伤害。
She must constantly and forever guard against the fear and shame that now skew her view of reality.
如果你只是不停抱怨自己多胖，说自己永远也瘦不下来，没办法去健身房，那你只是深深地伤害了自己。
If all you do is complain about how out of shape you are or how you never make it to the gym, you are only hurting yourself more.
追求那些不停地拒绝并伤害我们的人就是违背自己的本性。
When we are pursuing people who consistently reject and hurt us we are going against ourselves.
以使我们受到伤害的方式，我们还在不停地寻找更优秀的“我们自己”。
We just keep trying to find "better" versions of ourselves, to our own detriment.
于是，蚌将沙砾不停地卷磨，希望将沙砾磨平，以至于不伤害它的身体，但却付出了自己的鲜血，承受着痛苦的折磨！
So clam the gravel continuously roll mill, hope will sand smooth, that don't harm the body, but paid his own blood, suffered painful torture…
于是，蚌将沙砾不停地卷磨，希望将沙砾磨平，以至于不伤害它的身体，但却付出了自己的鲜血，承受着痛苦的折磨！
So clam the gravel continuously roll mill, hope will sand smooth, that don't harm the body, but paid his own blood, suffered painful torture…
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