You go to your elders, the people who know more about it, and they share their infinite wisdom.

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If you lose on purpose to your elders and are unable to skillfully conceal your purposefulness, you risk looking patronizing.

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She argues that the notion of "respecting your elders" may also have blunted the desire to take on the baby boomers.

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Are your elders always complaining about loud and monotonous music?

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Science editor Alan Boyle's blog: Researcher Jared Diamond, the author of "The World Until Yesterday, " says Congress could learn a lesson from tribal societies: Listen to your elders.

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Check out community resources for elders where your parent lives .

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So on behalf of the Tribal Business Council and my elders, I stand humbly in front of you and ask for your help.

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