You can't immediately tell people at the site what you're feeling or where you're hurting.

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As long as you're not hurting me, I don't care what you do.

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It's even difficult with family because they're hurting too and you don't want to upset them.

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You have to be sure that you're not being counterproductive and hurting yourself by putting too much pressure on yourself to try to perform well, not playing within yourself.

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Apple says they've figured out how to implement third party multitasking without hurting performance or battery life, and they're demoing it now -- you just double click the home button and see a list of your apps, and you can just tap to switch between apps.

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"You're hoping that she's OK wherever she's at, that she's not hurting, that she's not cold, that she's being fed, " Steven Sierra said, choking back tears.

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