Lastly, no more than 30% of your take-home pay should go toward your Lifestyle Choices , which covers the fun you can have today: shopping, entertainment, personal care, the gym, gifts and more.

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"I told her ... you've got the courage, you've got the strength to go do it, so go do it and have fun, " she said.

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