As emotion is dealt with by the right side of the brain, and speech by the left side, this could explain why men find it more difficult to talk about their emotions.
Last week Cohen and I sat down at The National to talk about how Lower East Side street style influences his aesthetic, why he thinks older women are more chic than older men, and whether young people have any hope of attaining true measures of style and elegance.
If you like where you are, research what the market is paying for a similar job to yours and go talk to your boss, armed with that information as well as a well-crafted case for why you deserve more.