Where you settle down is really a choice of who you want to be.
The key is to identify not what you want to be but who you want to be.
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"Be who you want to be and do what you want to do, " game director Todd Howard said.
But one of the things that I tell my girls is that you have to practice who you want to be every single day.
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Maybe this will give you a different perspective on who you want to be making rich, your own family, or the landlords and the banks.
So you know who you want to be friends with.
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And whether you want to create, strengthen, or diminish a connection the trick is using cards to reflect your intentions and identity, to reflect what you want to do and who you want to be.
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So, the advice I give business leaders in my seminars is to take some time right now to strategically define who you want to be, and what you want to be know as, and then to live that definition in every interaction.
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So who do you want to be: a bystander or a force of positive change?
As such, the spots do a good job of hammering out an imaginative place for Heineken Light: not the beer for the man you want to be, but rather the beer for that really exciting guy who you genuinely do not want to be all the time, but sometimes secretly wish you could live as, for a day or two.
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The symbol of the freedom of being able to choose who or what you want to be?
Once you get on the rat wheel you can often lose sight of who you are and where you want to be.
"It's tough working for high-end people who want you to be their full-time slave, " says Darlene Barnes of her old job as a personal chef.
The people closest to you will want to help, and you never know who may be listening or who may know someone who knows someone who might be interested.
When you look at the black women who shop at Fashion Fair and who shop at MAC and Bobbi Brown and all the speciality lines, I think we go there because we want to get that service and we want to be able to ask someone, you know, who's a professional what they would do.
There are people out there who want to love you, who would be honored to bear witness to your pain.
The most self-interested way to think about the issue is to consider whether you would want to be neighbors with someone who had been held in isolation.
You want somebody up there who wants to be there, feels that they deserve to be there.
At the same time, you want to have backers who will be in it for the long run, who will help you on that journey for a very long period of time.
Does Steve Jobs strike you like the McCardle acolytes who want to be a writer like Ernest Hemingway living in Paris of the 1920s without a clue of what the reality of that path will be today?
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If you know someone who is dying and you want to offer what encouragement you can (and it can be very awkward to do so), read this book, Final Gifts.
Validate who your daughter is and not what you want her to be.
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That isn't to say that it wouldn't ease off, but would you want to be the player who goes first?
If you want to be a princess who hangs out with Ghostbusters, then break out your Proton Pack and chase after green slime balls.
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