With a pen and paper, write down all the ways you are following the healing program and then the ways in which you are sticking with victimization one.
In order to get some extra time to pay our rent, the guys would write checks to one guy who would collect them all and make a deposit and he would then pay the bills.
All it will take is one or two defaults to trigger write downs of their LC guarantees which will then be followed by a loud call for transparency into what the banks are really holding.