They are the money you spent on redecorating your living room in the hot new style, only to find that you hate it living in it.

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Or maybe, you just hate Corporate America and the bureaucracy that comes with it.

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And people hate you for it because you say that Al Gore, if he runs, is going to revert to the old Al Gore.

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And she said, you know, I hate it when people tell me that my son was shot because he was in the wrong place at the wrong time.

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It creates a sense of unpredictability, and we hate that because it makes us have to think about what you are going to do or say next, and we get uncomfortable.

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