If you like to eat in the company of the glitterati and you've got the bank balance to back you up, take your meat-loving self to Prime One Twelve (112 Ocean Drive).

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Let her know that "You are not responsible for the feelings of others, but you certainly can take actions that allow you to be respectful of your teammates, friends, self and rules of the game, " Silby says.

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This is the first step toward self-control, and if self-control ever catches on, perhaps your next audience will take their eyes off their CrackBerries and focus on you.

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Leadership as a service often comes down to recognizing your own strengths and weaknesses and allowing the self-correcting dynamics of the group to take over.

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Perhaps the reality can be different if you are open to the possibility that you are making the most courageous choice of your life when you are willing to put your whole self on the line for a new project, to test an idea, or to take a shot at creating a better and happier life.

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For example, the "Best Possible Self" activity asks you to take 15 to 30 minutes in a quiet place and reflect on what your life will be like ideally in five years, including the life goals you want to accomplish.

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