Take good mental notes because the social dynamics of the room will tell you much about whom you ought to align yourself with and whom you should not.

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Take notes, ask for things like Good Faith Estimates (GFE) and Truth-In-Lending (TIL) statements to be e-mailed or faxed to you.

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