Set some ground rules before you start, at least in your own mind, because this is where your heart comes out from behind the computer screen.

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For mobile devices or certain classes of SaaS applications, perhaps it will be sufficient to set some ground rules, observe activity, and test when possible that the rules are being followed.

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Then set some ground rules.

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