The person who isn't overweight also should be aware of his or her own insecurities and possibly a subconscious need to sabotage the partner's weight-loss efforts.
"We're hopeful that this will be -- quite possibly -- the last major surgery that Max will need, " said Michael Silka, co-director of The Heart Institute at the hospital.
Climbing down would make Israel look weak both to Hizbullah and to other foes who need to be deterred, such as Hamas today and, possibly, a nuclear-armed Iran tomorrow.