To him, the mere act of setting a goal is the act of placing blinders upon one's eyes -- if you're only aiming for a specific finish, you're missing out on opportunities to see what no other is seeing.
While ITV said Kiki was "understandably disappointed, but in no way unduly distressed" by missing out on the chance to see her mother, Ofcom found "a significant level of offence" would have been caused by the decision to involve the young child in the programme, regardless of her demeanour on screen.