To make her guests feel welcome, Ms. Kemble removes personal items such as shampoo and bath products.

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Instead, her goal is to make her guests "feel comfortable and uncomfortable at the same time, " she says.

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The guests are beginning to feel out the atmosphere, trying to figure out who will make the first move at the veggie tray, seeing if they know anybody, trying to see who takes the first glass of champagne.

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