What kind of man courts a woman by letting her make an enormous bouquet for his wife, then asks her to pare back?

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If using more than one type in a bouquet, he notes it's important to make sure the aromas of different flowers don't clash.

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Her Derby season starts in January, when she begins ordering everything she will need to make the garland, as well as the jockey's bouquet, the massive rose arrangements in the winner's circle and 200 boutonnieres.

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