For me and my husband, itis important that in ourchoices we are setting examples for our kids that itis natural for girls to be strong leaders and for mothers and women to work in demanding careers, and for boys to be nurturers and for dads and men to be the primary care-givers, and vice versa.
If you think about it, this is another way of saying that for ourselves we should give thought to ourchoices by putting first things first, and not letting second things become first things.