So you stuff deep down inside what you really want and feel your inner passion drying up.

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Although they cannot speak in words, cannot wrap their arms around me, hugging me tight, or wipe the tears I cry, they have an inner force and passion that surpasses their developmental limitations and age.

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The bottom line: The major you choose must match your inner capabilities and your passion with unique market opportunities.

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Instead, you long for more inner joy, excitement, passion, peace.

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