"I was right there, so even though I was far from the door, at least I realized something was wrong, " said Rodrigo Rizzi, a first-year nursing student who was next to the stage when the fire broke out and watched the tragedy unfold, horror-stricken and helpless.

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But pondering what Cowen had to say, I had a strange reaction: I realized that he was right and I was wrong!

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But I withdrew from it, because I realized it was the wrong thing to do.

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Then I realized it was the wrong question.

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Soon enough I realized that the college campus was the wrong place to think about making it real.

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By the time I was sporting my nylon (get-too-close-to-the-sun-and-it-will-sizzle-up) cap and gown, I realized that English Literature was absolutely the wrong choice for me.

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What I do see when I talk to someone who has lost a family member to suicide is in many cases they realized something was wrong.

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