If your relationship is friendly, go to a well-lit bar and remember to drink responsibly.

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Was mom right when she told me, oh sometime in the 1960s, never to go to a bar unaccompanied and never drink with a man?

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When the two men go for a drink, it is the bumptious David who tries to ensnare a lustrous blonde at the bar, but it is Brandon whom she seeks out later that night.

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