To break out of the anxiety-filled cycle I have to give up the notion that I have some superhuman level of control.

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If you accept that notion, then ask your people to give you some feedback: Are there controls that you could loosen?

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But even -- I remember sitting in that meeting and even with -- the notion was even if you give -- if you make some of the required management changes and give them a lifeline, it was still a 51-49 proposition.

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