Keeping a spending diary for a week and getting the whole family involved has got us all talking about other issues too.

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As well as helping mothers care for babies and keeping a diary of their progress, the Dutch nurses help with chores such as cleaning and laundry, make sure older children are properly fed and ensure mothers' rest is not interrupted by too many visitors.

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Vikki is keeping a web diary of her operation and hospital stay for BBC News Online.

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