Those who lie about the behaviors to show off may receive positive feedbackfromothers -- comments such as "that's great" or "I do the same thing" -- that encourage them to actually try out the behaviors, he said.
It helps also to gain as much feedback as possible fromothers, to have standards against which you can measure your progress so that you are aware of how far you have to go.
For those who want to get the opinions of others, she points out that the Entertainment Software Rating Board provides feedback and that parents are always learning from one another on, for instance, discussion boards.