And one of the ways I tell a story is in 2002, 2003, if you were a 10-year-old boy or girl and your mom or dad - mostly dads - were in one of these units that deployed frequently - we're in our fourth or fifth major deployment and most of them have been a year or longer.
This is meant to create more equality between mum and dad which is good, in reality while many mums work 80%, the vast majority of dads work full time.