"People think even more so than ever that colleges cheat all the time, " said Keith Strudler, director of Marist's program.

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Each time some people will cheat and some will get away with it.

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Pork butt doesn't take kindly to blasts of high heat, so don't think you can cheat by turning up the heat and reducing the cooking time.

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Yet in researching why people cheat and how they cheat, I've found that, much of the time, cheating actually implies a player is actively engaged in a game and wants to do well, even when the game fails them.

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It is time we, as a society stop making excuses for why we become unhappy, cheat, or get divorced.

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