She initially agreed to join him but then changed her mind and said she would go to another bedroom, where she fell asleep.

BBC: Scotland

She first came to the UK as a visitor in 2003, but then changed her status to student and attempted to enrol on a banking course at a city college, her solicitor explained.

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If you decide your listener has fundamentally changed the way he or she sees you, then apologize, but keep it short and low-key.

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