Offer to talk again later when the emotions are not so raw, or ask a trained HR counselor to join you.

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You should ask your potential customer key questions like: Who can offer the best advice in buying their life or home insurance?

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If you're employed and thinking about changing jobs, or if your objective is to make a career switch, holiday gatherings also offer a chance to ask people about their own work.

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