What nobody can predict, though, is how a change in the law would affect those who avoid marriage precisely because they do not want to become financially intertwined.
"I don't think that polygamy should be enshrined in law because it will affect the mutual love and companionship that a marriage needs and it will also affect the stability of the family, " says Dr Ali.
When I was feeling protective of our privacy, I would write more lifestyle-focused pieces: the importance to a marriage of having close friends, for instance, or how different tastes in food can affect family dinner.