If she can't, the whole family, Aesha included, may end up moving to Germany.
Stories like Aesha's inspire us, girls, struggling to live a normal and deserved life.
When Miena couldn't get around right after her soccer injury, Aesha propped pillows under her foot.
While the separation has been hard, it has helped Aesha step into new roles.
Whether she knows it or not, whether she means to or not, Aesha is making a difference.
"I suffered a lot in my life, " Aesha said, as Jamila translated, days before her first surgery last June.
And then there was this one, from a young woman who saw in Aesha's story something she knows too well.
Mati and Jamila had talked about adopting a young child from Haiti or foster care, but now they have Aesha.
Aesha's transformed face, and her sense of peace and comfort in her new Maryland home, is a testament to her development.
If she can't practice medicine in the United States, he says, the whole family -- Aesha included -- may move to Germany.
It has been tough to be absent, especially around Aesha's surgeries.
But as she progresses physically and emotionally, in other respects Aesha's life is on hold -- teetering between inertia and, at times, regression.
Their flexibility as a family, their ability to pick up as a unit and move for work, is limited in part by Aesha's surgeries.
When a pinched nerve in Mati's back left him bedridden, Aesha would pad upstairs to his bedroom to see what she could bring him.
No mirror can reflect to Aesha, or anyone else, those answers.
And after meeting Mati, his wife Jamila Rasouli-Arsala and their daughter from Jamila's first marriage, Aesha campaigned to join them through months of middle-of-the-night phone calls.
Unable to wash her own hair after her surgeries, Aesha sits in a small chair and leans back over the bathtub so Mati can do it.
Aesha sets the table while the woman she sometimes calls mother, sometimes aunt, prepares a traditional Afghan feast featuring heaping platters of rice, lamb and chicken kebab.
The phone calls from Aesha began soon after Mati and Jamila met her in July, when she had regaled and delighted them with her humor and stories.
If you are interested in making a donation to Aesha's personal account to support her on her journey, go to the website set up in June 2012 by the family who is caring for her: Aesha's Journey.
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