你没什么好责备自己的。
超过一半的受访者都会责备自己的健忘，总是忘记要做许多事。
More than half of those surveyed blamed their forgetfulness on trying to do too many things.
她尽可以责备自己的这个弱点，但再怎么责备这弱点也消失不了。
She might scold herself for the weakness, but there was no scolding it away.
因此，在你为拖拉狠狠的责备自己的时候，查看你是否可以从中成就事业。
So before you beat yourself up for procrastinating, check to see whether you make a career out of it.
我自己呢，难道我一点也没有应该责备自己的地方吗？我不也是经常让你们到我的花园浇水以此代替学习吗？当我想钓鳟鱼的时候，我不是随随便便就给你们放假吗？
And have I nothing to reproach myself for? Have I not often made you water my garden instead of studying? And when I wanted to go fishing for trout, have I ever hesitated to dismiss you?
随着剧情的展开，他讲述了自己如何杀死自己心爱的、总是宽恕他的妻子伊芙琳(Evelyn)，只因为“一个人不可能无止境地责备自己的良心，无止境地让人家宽恕、同情，总有个极限啊！”
As the drama unfolds, he recounts how he killed his loving, ever-forgiving wife Evelyn, because "There is a limit to the guilt you can feel and the forgiveness you can take."
不要责备你自己，这不是你的过错。
比如说，当家庭中有一个酒鬼，但每个人都拒绝承认，孩子可能会因父母古怪、盛气凌人的态度责备自己。
When, for example, there is an alcoholic in the family, but everyone denies it, the child may blame themselves for the parent's erratic and aggressive behaviour.
我自己是无可责备的。
如果你为自己的失败责备别人或者简单地就放弃了，那么你的孩子也会跟你学。
If you blame others for your failures or simply give up, that's what your kids will learn.
所有这些的令人相当压抑的结果是，我们可能不喜欢“责备受害人”的想法，但成为犯罪攻击目标的人也经常确实把自己显现出来，即使只是下意识地。
The rather depressing upshot of all this is that, as much we may hate the idea of "blaming the victim," people who are on the receiving end of crime often do mark themselves out, if only subliminally.
你甚至可以停止责备自己带来的麻烦。
不要责备自己，要敞开自己的胸怀，仔细回忆，然后写下当时所发生之事，写下它的原因和结果。
Do not blame yourself; instead, open yourself to the feeling, to the memory, and then write down what happened, the causes and the consequences.
他说他为自己在过去的一年中，没能向公众充分阐明自己计划这点接受应得的责备。
He said he accepted his' share of the blame 'for not adequately explaining his plans to the public over the past year.
他的想法是，自己决不能责备她。
面对她那震惊的表情，我已经准备收回我说过的话，如果有必要的话，责备我自己，再道歉。
Faced with her look of shock, I had been ready to take it all back if necessary, blame myself, and apologize.
要确保你的计划着重于自己的表现以及该承担的责任，而不是责备他人，推卸责任。
Be sure that you focus on your own performance and responsibilities so as to avoid blaming or burdening others.
他的弟子常常在盛夏午睡，虽然他并不因此责备弟子，自己却从不浪费一分钟时间。
His pupils used to sleep in the daytime during midsummer, and while he overlooked this he himself never wasted a minute.
如果我们用自己的大脑责备别人或制造借口，我们今日可能同样贫穷。
If we had used our mind to blame other or to make excuses, we would both be poor today.
你或许甚至尝试写一本错误天才日记，这里不是你责备自己犯了多少错误的地方，而是你主动从已经发生的事情中汲取经验的地方。
You might even try keeping a mistake genius journal. Not a place for you to berate yourself for how many mistakes you make, but a place for you to actively learn from what has happened.
我看出她对他那执拗的抑郁和怠情感到难受；她的良心责备她不该把他吓得放弃改变自己：这件事她做得生效了。
I saw she was sorry for his persevering sulkiness and indolence: her conscience reproved her for frightening him off improving himself: she had done it effectually.
美国人的信念是，每个辛苦劳作的人都能成功，这几乎成了责任，很多人落魄之后开始责备自己。
Raised on the belief that success was available to all hardworking Americans and was almost a duty, many of the new poor blamed themselves.
但是他两度责备世行的捐助国自己的失言。
在本质上，责备对方，就是在诉说对方控制了自己的感情和行为。
In essence, when I blame I am saying to my partner that she controls my feelings and behavior.
如果你哪天偷懒不做了，不要责备自己——每个人都会有这样的问题，并且习惯的养成是一个需要练习的技能。
If you do, don’t beat yourself up, don’t judge, don’t feel bad — everyone messes up sometimes, and habit formation is a skill that requires practice.
除了对比之下引起的不愉快而外，她在心里头还产生了一阵严厉的自我责备，怪自己没有早点回来帮助母亲做些家务事情，而一直在外面贪恋玩乐。
Besides the jar of contrast there came to her a chill self-reproach that she had not returned sooner, to help her mother in these domesticities, instead of indulging herself out-of-doors.
除了对比之下引起的不愉快而外，她在心里头还产生了一阵严厉的自我责备，怪自己没有早点回来帮助母亲做些家务事情，而一直在外面贪恋玩乐。
Besides the jar of contrast there came to her a chill self-reproach that she had not returned sooner, to help her mother in these domesticities, instead of indulging herself out-of-doors.
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