“自私的爱”本身就是自相矛盾的。
而自私的爱是最低级的。
作为孩子，我们爱靠的是本能，但它是一种自私的爱。
我不是在说“自私的爱”是魔鬼，只是它不是纯洁的爱。
I am not saying that "selfish love" is evil, only that it is not pure love.
爱有三种：无私的爱，相互的、平凡的爱和自私的爱。
Love is of three varieties : unselfish, mutual and ordinary or selfish.
这种“爱”，99%是一种自私的爱，完全说不上是一种爱。
This "love", 99% of the time, is really a selfish love, which isn't love at all.
爱情的爱，属于自私的爱，不管拥有那一种爱，今天你爱了吗？
The love of the love, belong to a selfish love, ignore to own that love, did you love today?
作为孩童，我们凭本能而爱，但那是自私的爱，是出于需要的爱，是为了生存而无助地仰赖于他人所生发的爱。
As children we love by instinct, but it is a selfish love. One which results out of necessity, born of helpless reliance on others for survival.
自私的爱是最低级的一种爱。这种爱会使一个人只关心他自己的幸福，却毫不顾及所爱的人的感受。（摘自博士考试翻译）
Selfish love is the lowest. It makes a man care only for his own happiness without having any regard for the feeling of the beloved.
相反的，一种占有性的，自私的爱显示为时时以自我为中心，总是强调‘自由’，却把自己的种种自私的行为冠以“爱”的名义。
On the other hand, a possessive type of love proclaimed by narcissistic types does indeed grant freedom to rationalize any type of behaviour "in the name of love".
在你的一生之中，总会有至少一个时刻，你会为一个人忘了你自己的存在，不求结果，不奢望陪伴，不为了占有，也不是为了自私的爱。
In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership, nor love.
爱是自私的对立面。
在你的思想里，自私被清理出来，上帝的法令被写进去，那么你就会全心全意的用灵魂，用精神爱上帝，像爱自己那样爱邻居。
Selfishness is taken out, and God's Law is written in your mind so that you love Him with all your heart and your soul and your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.
爱情是不是凌驾于个人自私之上的东西，也就是你们现在问的问题，自私的行为和爱的行为的区别，之后的问题是这两者的关系怎样？
Is love something that takes beyond one's selfishness which is what you are now raising the difference between acting selfishly and acting out of love. Then the question is how the two related?
他们教会我所有人都需要爱。仅把自己的过失和错误决定看成是毫无意义的自会使人更痛苦、变得更自私自利。
They taught me that everyone needs love; that seeing our mistakes and poor decisions as indicators of unworthiness leads to self-absorption and more pain.
因为我想在这个充斥着憎恨，讥讽，漠视，贪婪和自私的世界里做一个希望，爱，乐观，舒适，给与人引导的形象。
Because I want to be a symbol of hope, love, optimism, comfort, and guidance in a world seemingly filled with so much hate, cynicism, neglect, greediness, and selfishness.
自私点说，我们可能希望我们爱的老人们继续活着，如果只是作为我们自身死亡的参照。
Selfishly, we may want our old loved ones to just keep going, if only as a bulwark against our own mortality.
这是一个不同的类别。并且与，爱的本质的关系比和一般的自私的关系更密切。
It's a different category. And that is more related to nature of love than ordinary selfishness.
许多人认为爱只是一个自私的形式- - -而不是纯洁的爱。
What many think of as love is really just a form of selfishness — not pure love.
我自私的动机是：对我来说，你的爱。
所以不用说，你没有能力，爱那个人但是这更是一个自私的行为，说，“我想要所有其他人想要的那个人。”
So there's nothing to say that you would be able to love that person but it's more of a selfish try to say "I want the one that everyone else also wants."
Bella自私的想死，这样她就可以变成吸血鬼和Edward永远的在一起了，而Elena却愿意为了保护她爱的人牺牲自己。
While Bella selfishly wants to die so she can become a vampire and live with Edward forever, Elena wants to sacrifice her life solely to ensure the safety of her loved ones.
然而，其中大多数人的顺从，并非出于爱的激励，而是被自私的动机驱使。
But with too many of the people obedience was not prompted by love. The motive was selfish.
爱是自私的，但仅仅因为爱自私而忽略爱的其他特质。
Love is selfish, but to ignore its other traits just because of its selfishness.
我们必须竭尽所能的谨慎，让祷告不是出于自私和贪婪，而是根植于爱与谦卑之中。
We must take great care to make sure our prayers are not prompted by selfishness or greed, but are rooted in love and humility.
在童话故事中，爱情让人变得无私，变得勇敢，但在现实生活中，爱只不过是自私行为的万用借口。
In fairy tales love inspires you to be noble and courageous, but in real life love is just an all purpose excuse for selfish behavior.
在童话故事中，爱情让人变得无私，变得勇敢，但在现实生活中，爱只不过是自私行为的万用借口。
In fairy tales love inspires you to be noble and courageous, but in real life love is just an all purpose excuse for selfish behavior.
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