另一方面，当别人对待你的方式与你的自我定义不一致时，你就会被拒绝。
On the other hand, rejection occurs when others treat you in a manner that in inconsistent with your self-definition.
但是我拒绝把它们称作自我的实现与自我的满足。
But I refuse to call the realisation of self, self-sufficiency.
地方调查官要求测试贝登古尔是否拥有我完全的自我意识，但是她拒绝做这项医疗测试。
Bettencourt refused to submit to medical tests that the investigating magistrate was requesting to determine whether or not she was in command of her senses.
当人们被拒绝的时候，他们的自我是脆弱的，尤其伴侣提出分手时。
People's egos are often delicate when they feel they are being rejected, and having one's partner say good-bye often brings up such feelings.
“如果国家拒绝与我们对话，如果它决意采取严刑拷问的手段，拷打并关押我们的人民，那么人民也只能自我防御了，”他说道。
"If the state refuses to speak to us, if it decides to torture, beat and imprison our people, then you can only expect people to defend themselves," he says.
那些害羞或者骄傲的人拒绝向其他人学习，注定他们要孤单并且失去自我提升的重要资源。
Those who are shy or pride refuse to learn from others. They are doomed to remain alone and lose a great source of personal improvement.
在给我们灌输结构的过程中，我们很多天生的动力、自我表达和通过直接体验认识自然等方式都被拒绝了。
In the process of instilling structure, many of our natural impulses to move, express, and learn about the nature of our existence through our own direct experience were denied.
德国还一贯主张欧元区国家必须自我管理好财政并拒绝给予救助。
At German insistence, countries in the euro must tame their public finances and cannot be bailed out.
本文从专家的角度提出预防措施，希望能引导女性朋友自我保鲜，拒绝糜烂。
This article from the Angle of experts, puts forward the prevention measures to guide female friends self preservation, refused to erosion.
Edwards向州上诉法院诉初审法院拒绝自我辩护的请求，但仍被驳回，接着他又向印第安纳州最高法院上诉直至美国最高法院。
Edwards appealed the denial of the request to represent himself to a state appeals court, and after yet another denial, to the Indiana Supreme Court and finally to the U.S. Supreme Court.
实际上只有一处，有人当面直接问佛陀，自我是否存在，而他却拒绝回答了。
In fact, the one place where the Buddha was asked point-blank whether or not there was a self, he refused to answer.
他们拒绝任何贬低自我保护的人，承认无能于建立人和人之间真正的亲密关系。
It is to reject anyone who would diminish the protected ego and to acknowledge an inability to achieve the intimacy of authentic human contact.
有心人都会发现问题，但是人们都拒绝承认，甚至恒久熊（perma-bear）也开始怀疑自我。
The problems are obvious to anyone who bothers to see, but everyone is in denial, and even the perma-bears are starting to doubt themselves.
例如有人拒绝使用“我”和“你”因为他们认为这些会引生出“自我”的观念——这完全脱离实际！
For example, there are people who refuse to use the words "I" and "you" because they think that it will arouse the idea of self. This is impractical!
在成长过程中，我们的自我感知方式是由我们父母（或者称为“重要亲属”）的接受或拒绝的经验所决定的。
The way we feel about ourselves is conditioned by our experience of our parents' (or significant others') acceptance or rejection of us as we were growing up.
在任何情形下，带着觉察的决定，我拒绝不再服务于我图像的镜子，选择了我最新的图象作为我自我的图像来定位。
In any event, with conscious decision, I rejected the mirror that no longer served my picture of me and chose my own updated vision to reside as my mental picture of myself.
而因为你拒绝看清楚，你受到欺骗，那些聪明、狡猾的领导人会剥削你，因为这些领导人和你一样追求自我的成就。
And because you refuse to see it, you are creating out of your confusion the clever, the cunning leaders who exploit you because, the leader, like you, is seeking self-fulfilment.
拒绝那些自我保护的想法例如：‘她一定时不感兴趣’。
REJECT those self defeating thoughts of "She must not have been interested."
他无法拒绝贷款给朋友，他是自我放纵。
He couldn't refuse a loan to a friend, and he was self-indulgent.
在很短时间在我们最不经意的时候一个被我们拒绝、不愿意拥有的自我方面就可能蹦出将我们的生活、名誉和所有的努力都毁灭。
In a matter of minutes, when we least expect it, a rejected or unwanted aspect of ourselves can pop up and destroy our lives, our reputations, and all of our hard work.
探寻者必须拒绝低等自我的邪恶耳语。
在任何讨论中，至少双方中的一方拒绝再听下去，讨论很快就变成了一场有关自我的争斗，我对你，谁是对的？有点像游戏吧。
Any discussion, where at least one of the two parties refuses to listen soon turns into a battle of egos - me-versus-you, Who is right? Sort of game.
驱使我拒绝诱惑，勇闯黑暗，挑战自我。
I refused the temptation to drive, very best in darkness, to challenge themselves.
祂乃是赐给他们拒绝的意愿与力量，但那“不肯”的决定是从他们个人选择之心而发，选择顺从上帝而非自我。
He gave them the desire and the strength to resist, but that refusal sprang from their personal decisive choice to obey God rather than self.
父亲变得痛苦遁世，避开了许多朋友，拒绝参加一切能使他恢复平静，回到自我的活动。
The father became a bitter recluse, shutting himself away from his many friends and refusing every activity that might restore his poise and bring him back to his normal self.
父亲变得痛苦遁世，避开了许多朋友，拒绝参加一切能使他恢复平静，回到自我的活动。
The father became a bitter recluse, shutting himself away from his many friends and refusing every activity that might restore his poise and bring him back to his normal self.
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