如果朋友和家里人看到你在经受重压的痛苦的话，他们也会开始和你有同样的感觉。
If friends and family see that you are having a hard time with stress and related stressful issues, they may begin to experience it as well.
当我们觉得我们看到了什么东西，比如说一个红色的小玫瑰花蕾，我们会觉得我们的朋友们看到的也是同样的玫瑰花蕾，同样的颜色，同样的大小。
When we think we see something, say like a small red rosebud, we think our friend will see the same rosebud, same shape, same size.
每日最新消息以电子邮件的方式寄给你的朋友是一个很好的方法，同样使用在线论坛，或在你办公室每个人都可以看到的地方张贴上一张负债表。
Daily email updates to your friends is a good method, as is using an online forum, or Posting a big tally sheet in your office where everyone can see it.
有一次，我一个下午能看到同样的朋友五次。
Once, I ran into the same friend five times in one afternoon!
结婚与和朋友下馆子颇类似：你点了自己想吃的菜，但是当你看到别人点的菜时，你又但愿你自己点了同样的菜。
Getting married is very much like going to the restaurant with friends. You order what you want, and when you see what the other fellow has, you wish you had ordered that.
他们是和我一起长大的其中5个朋友。当看到我们的童年变成碎片，并和这个地区其他剩下的地方一样被开发时，他们和我同样感到震惊。
It was 5 of my friends I had grown up with, just as stunned as I was, as they watched our childhood go into the 6 chipper, becoming developed, just as all the rest of the area was.
他们是和我一起长大的其中5个朋友。当看到我们的童年变成碎片，并和这个地区其他剩下的地方一样被开发时，他们和我同样感到震惊。
It was 5 of my friends I had grown up with, just as stunned as I was, as they watched our childhood go into the 6 chipper, becoming developed, just as all the rest of the area was.
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