实验表明，如果你改变人们说话的方式，就会改变他们思考的方式。
It turns out that if you change how people talk, that changes how they think.
决定改变你说话和思考的方式来使你做这些。
And you do this by deciding to change the way you speak and the way you think.
当你在测试自己的脾性、试图改变自己说话的方式的时，考虑清楚你要说什么以及应该怎么说。
When you are on your way to a situation you know will test your temper and your tongue, plan ahead what you will say and how you will say it.
改变你的语气。只用30秒，使用更柔和、更冷静的语气，或是任何一种听上去更舒服的说话方式。
Change your tone of voice.For 30 seconds, speak softer, calmer, or just more pleasantly.
她说：“如果你的老板说话温和，而你却非常健谈且活力十足，或者相反，那你就应该尽量改变自己说话的方式。”
If your boss is very soft-spoken and you're much more voluble and high-energy, or vice versa, try altering the way you talk.
她说：“如果你的老板说话温和，而你却非常健谈且活力十足，或者相反，那你就应该尽量改变自己说话的方式。”
If your boss is very soft-spoken and you're much more voluble and high-energy, or vice versa, try altering the way you talk.
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