像“走自己的路”，“靠自己的双脚站立”，或者当我面对某些行为招致的后果时，我母亲最喜欢说的一句话：“既然你已经铺好了床，就躺在上面吧。”
"Make your own way", " Stand on your own two feet" or my mother's favorite remark when I was face-to-face with consequences of some action: "Now that you've made your bed, lie on it."
我从这一切中学到的是，你应该敢于挑战自己，并记住你是唯一能为自己设限的人。
What I have learned from all this is that you should dare to challenge yourself and remember that you are the only person that sets your own limits.
我一直热爱跑步…这是你自己单独能够做的，并且是根据自己的能力。
I always loved running... it was something you could do by yourself, and under your own power.
我觉得离开自己原有的文化环境让你对认识自己产生了困难。
I think you are having a hard time seeing yourself outside of your own cultural context.
我建议你向上帝承诺给自己五个为了自己的生活的目的，这样他们也可以做同样的事。
I suggest you commit yourself to God's five purposes for your life so that they will commit to that, too.
君主制不是对我的，或者你的意志的直接表达，不如说是一种抽象概念，是源于自己统治自己的自然愿望。
The sovereign is not the direct expression of my will or your will, but rather an abstraction from my natural desire to rule myself.
我自己照的这些照片，它们将证实你把墨汁溅到自己手上了。
I took these photos myself. They will prove you spilled ink on yourself.
我理解你的感觉，关于你自己的家庭的不快乐和未解决的问题，但是我再次请求你检查为什么这意味著你不可以找到与你自己的孩子在一起的快乐？
I understand that you have feelings of unhappiness and unresolved issues with your own family but, again, I ask you to examine why that means that you cannot find happiness with your own children?
无论何时，只要你发现自己在想自己的想要的东西或想法，你就可以对自己说：“哦，我知道我不想要的是什么了。”
Whenever you catch yourself thinking that you do not want some thing or a thought, you can then say, "Oh, I know what I do not want."
我相信你已经有了自己的系统，有了自己的优势，你必须学着去相信你的优势。
I assume that you already have your own system, your own edge. You must learn to trust your edge.
我知道这已经是老生常谈了，但是女人确实希望你知道你自己想要什么，然后自己寻找它！
I know it's been repeated over and over, but women want you to know what you want and for you to be looking for it!
“我要说，在我生命之中的大部分时间，我从不觉得自己是去上班，我觉得自己是要去做些很享受的事情，”他说，“如果觉得这是辛苦劳作，你就不应该去做。”
"I'd say for most of my life I never saw myself as going to work, I saw myself as going to do something I totally enjoy," he says. "if it's drudgery, you ought not do it."
正是出于这些原因，我把我自己的过程描述得如此详细，是为了给你一些感觉和点子，去完成你自己的过程。
It is for these reasons that I have gone into so much detail in my own description, for you to get a feel of the ideas, and to do your own thing.
当你听到自己在说“我很孤独”，那是你的思想再向你撒谎，你将因此继续对你自己感到抱歉。
When you hear yourself say "I am all alone," it is your mind trying to sell you a lie so you will continue to feel sorry for yourself.
虽然你会感觉有点怪，但是大声对自己说“我原谅自己曾经伤害了他”，然后做个深呼吸。
As odd as it may feel, apologize aloud to yourself, "I forgive myself for hurting this person," and take a deep breath.
我相信—仅仅让他人去原谅你还是不够的。有时候，你要学会自己原谅自己。
I believe - it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
“我认为当你自己过于关注自己的体型，你的过多的精力和注意力都集中在这上面了，”她说。
"I think that when you are self-conscious about your body, too much of your mind and emotions are focused on it," she says.
如果你看了自己的工作环境，然后对自己说“我在工作时需要这些乱七八糟的东西围绕着我”，那么我的回答是：你是个垃圾！
If you've looked at your workspace and said to yourself "I need to work surrounded by all this mess," my reply is: rubbish!
一旦如此，你便再无法看到自己的激情，你告诉自己：为什么不抓住这个对我来说一无所知的机会赶快大赚一笔呢？
When this happens you lose sight of your passion because you tell yourself, "Hey I have a chance to make quick money why not take the opportunity with something I have no idea about".
也就是说，你对自己说，你知道吗，我为我自己感到骄傲：，我可以摒弃一切形式的主观，我真的可以做到客观。
That is to say, you're asking yourself, "Well, sure." You know what? I pride myself on this: I can factor out all forms of subjectivity. I really can be objective.
在认识你之前，从来没有人相信我是可以依靠的一个人；也是你，才让我自己相信了自己。
I have never known anyone who actually believed that I was enough until I met you, and then you made me believing too.
这个过程帮助我巩固自己的思想并且把自己的想法系统化，我想这对你来说也是同样的道理。
This process helps cement my thinking and I think fleshing out your thoughts systematically like this will help you too.
如果说妈妈是要我依靠自己变得强壮，迈克则是用自己的行动告诉我—世界总还会眷顾你，哪怕你无从期待。
If my mother had taught me to be strong and depend on myself, Mike imparted his own lesson — that the world will provide for you, even when you least expect it.
你能从我的故事中联想到自己，看清自己吗？
Can you relate to our story, or see yourself in what I've Shared?
我决不是教你忽略自己，如果你连自己都帮不了，你便无法帮助别人。所以要找到一个最佳的平衡点。
I am by no means saying to neglect yourself, because if you do not help yourself, you cannot help others, so there's always a fine line of balance.
我决不是教你忽略自己，如果你连自己都帮不了，你便无法帮助别人。所以要找到一个最佳的平衡点。
I am by no means saying to neglect yourself, because if you do not help yourself, you cannot help others, so there's always a fine line of balance.
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