这是一个我们吹嘘情商并宣称能够体会到彼此痛苦的年代。
This is an age when we boast of our emotional intelligence and we claim to feel each other's pain.
唯一的不同是情商。
人们写信问我，学术智力和情商之间是否有联系。
People write to ask me if there's a correlation between academic intelligence and emotional intelligence.
情绪上的自我意识是情商的下一个基本要素：能够摆脱坏情绪。
Emotional self-awareness is the building block of the next fundamental of emotional intelligence: being able to shake off a bad mood.
你可以有高智商和高情商，当然，这是一个成功的组合，或者一个高另一个低。
You can have a high IQ and a high EQ, which, of course, is a winning combination, or be high in one and low in the other.
盖伊当选领导，在后来一次基数测量中发现他的情商是最高的。
Guy was elected leader and then found to have the highest EQ on a nominal measure.
在某些情况下，大众化改变了情商的本意。
Popularization has in some cases changed the original meaning of emotional intelligence.
情商专注于大脑和心灵，可能会为我们指明正确的方向。
Emotional intelligence, with its focus on both head and heart, may serve to point us in the right direction.
现在许多人对情商有误解，以为情商就是人的性格中无法通过智商测试来衡量的一切可取的东西，例如性格、动机、自信、心理稳定性、乐观以及“人际交往技巧”。
Many people now misunderstand emotional intelligence as almost everything desirable in a person's makeup that cannot be measured by an IQ test, such as character, motivation, confidence, mental stability, optimism and "people skills."
高情商并不一定使一个人成为一个有道德的人。
Being emotionally intelligent does not necessarily make one a moral person.
我们更愿意将情商描述为一套特定的技能，可以用于好的或坏的目的。
We prefer to describe emotional intelligence as a specific set of skills that can be used for either good or bad purposes.
尽管关于情商的普遍观点远超出了研究能够支持的合理范围，但大众化的总体效果是利大于弊的。
Although popular beliefs regarding emotional intelligence run far ahead of what research can reasonably support, the overall effects of the publicity have been more beneficial than harmful.
情商的大众化帮助公众和研究人员重新评估情绪的功能，以及它们在日常生活中如何对应地为人们服务。
The popularization of emotional intelligence has helped both the public and researchers re-evaluate the functionality of emotions and how they serve people adaptively in everyday life.
研究表明，情感技能可能有助于提高这些品质中的某几个，但其中大多数远远超出了基于技能的情商。
Research has shown that emotional skills may contribute to some of these qualities, but most of them move far beyond skill-based emotional intelligence.
虽然情商具有持续广泛的吸引力是件好事，但我们希望这种关注能激发人们对情感科学和学术研究产生更大的兴趣。
Although the continuing popular appeal of emotional intelligence is desirable, we hope that such attention will excite a greater interest in the scientific and scholarly study of emotion.
以下是构成情商的两个主要品质，以及如何培养这些品质：在情感发生时辨别情感的能力是情商的基石。
Following are two of the major qualities that make up emotional intelligence, and how they can be developed: The ability to recognize a feeling as it happens is the keystone of emotional intelligence.
拥有充分发挥作用的新皮质的反社会者通常是精明和情商高的人，但缺乏与他人建立关系、感同身受或表达关心的能力。
Sociopaths in possession of fully-functioning neocortexes are often shrewd and emotionally intelligent people but lack any ability to relate to, empathise with or express concern for others.
世界各国领导人都是高情商。
他们经常误认为情商是魅力或合群的一种表现。
They often mistake emotional intelligence for a form of charisma or gregariousness.
不能肯定自己是否有如此高的情商？
Not sure your emotional intelligence is that high? Try these strategies.
就是情商啦，在当今和IQ可是同等的重要啊。
EQ, or emotional intelligence, is as important as IQ for success in today's workplace.
你因智商受聘，因情商升迁。
你因智商受聘，因情商升迁。
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