你被嵌在未来(作为行动结果的那个应该的自我，或者理想的自我)和与那个未来相去甚远的现在的夹缝中。
You're caught between the future (your ought or ideal self as a result of the action) and the present which is not this future.
他们相信好的父母应该自我牺牲和克己忘我。
They believed that good parents should be self-sacrificing and self-denying.
乔伊斯博士建议，除了自我护理之外，如果女性有很大的压力，应该寻求专业支持。
Dr. Joyce suggests that apart from self-care, women should seek professional support if they experience severe stress.
它应该成为自我确认的一种行为而不是他人的否定。
It should be an act of affirmation by self and not negation by others.
理性的不参杂感情的自我评价应该能告诉我们自己是否有能力和技巧去做些什么。
Rational, unemotional, self assessment should tell us whether or not we have the skills and ability to do something.
根据自我评估，你应该会得到一份适合你的职业列表。
What you should end up with is a list of suitable careers based on your self assessment.
生气是一种消极的反应，如果你想要在自我提升及灵修方面的道路上走得更远，你应该尽最大可能避免生气。
Anger is a negative reaction, and if you wish to progress on the path of self-improvement or spiritual growth you should avoid it as much as possible.
你应该考虑读一些我的关于自我提升的文章。那儿写的活动将能提升你的个性和生活方式。
You should consider reading my article about self improvement activities. The actions listed there will certainly improve your personality and lifestyle.
你应该知道你改变和提升自我，变成你想要成为的那个人。
You should know that you change and improve yourself, and become this new person who matches what you want and behaves as such.
你的自我提升的标题应该包括这些要点。
Your headline for promoting yourself should include these traits.
每一位个人应该透过自我我教育及强化自己的意志力，来抗拒香烟的诱惑。
Through educating himself and strengthening his own will power, every individual should resist the temptation of cigarettes.
确实，他只有33岁，但是我认为他应该看到他自我的一面，是一名不同于别人（穆里尼奥）的教练——虽然也来自葡萄牙，但是拥有不同的风格。只有认识到这一点他才可能成功。
''Yes, he is only 33, but I think we should look at him just as a man on his own, a different manager - yes from Portugal, but a different individual, and just give him a chance to succeed.
事实上，你应该为自己感到骄傲，没有几个大学生能有机会接受这样的自我训练。
In fact, you should be proud of yourself: too few college students take similar opportunities to train themselves.
我问上帝，我应该在那方面改善自我，并请求他给我面对现实的勇气。
I asked God to show me where to improve and to give me the courage to face it.
还应该开始转变观念，不要再将自己的应用程序看作自我编程技能的总和；相反，它可以是通向各种数据的一个大门。
You should also start thinking about your application as more than a sum of your coding skills; instead, it can simply be a gateway to various pieces of data.
管理人员应该给予团队足够的自由，让他们自我负责。
Management should provide freedom to their teams and expect them to take on responsibility.
在别人需要的时候出现，而且知道你能够出现，你应该出现，远离那些带着否定和自我怀疑出现在你生活中的人，因为积极和消极都是很有感染力的。
Be there for others during their times of need but know that you can, and should, cut loose people who fill your life with negativity and self-doubt. Positivity and negativity are infectious.
有这样一些词语和想法反映了自我怀疑的出现，我们应该训练自己早点发现。
There are certain words and thoughts that reveal the presence of doubt and we should train ourselves to spot them early on.
我开始逐渐意识到有些事情你不去了解可能会使你的心情感觉轻松些，有些事情对我宁静的心境不会有丝毫的帮助，对于一个自我主义者，总是应该有意回避那种消息的。
That's how I came to know a few things it might have been easier not to know, stories that did nothing for my peace of mind, the kind of news an egotist should always take care to avoid.
人们应该都是他们自称的那个人，不应该撒谎或者隐藏他们真实的自我。
People are supposed to be who they say they are. And not lie or hide their true selves.
没有焦虑，自我内部的不和谐并不明显，尽管理论上这些的确都是应该存在的。
There is no anxiety. Incongruence is not apparent, although the theory suggests it would be substantial indeed.
你的唯一选择是教导你的孩子自我控制，让他们知道在公共场所应该如何表现和抵抗他们的冲动。
Your onlyalternative is to teach your young child self-control so they know how tobehave in public and resist their impulse urges.
借鉴来自我们的TCAP应用程序的经验教训，您应该能够构建您的应用程序并做出明智的设计决策。
You should be able to build your application and make design decisions using the lessons learned from our sample TCAP application.
“生活中的重点变化了，但这并不意味着你背叛自己——你正直面现实，试图对你能做到的事抱有更现实的观点，你应该停止因为这点而自我打击，”她说。
"Priorities shift, but that doesn't mean you're selling out - you are facing reality and trying to be realistic about what you can achieve and you should stop beating yourself up about it," she said.
好的，我想我应该和大多数人一样来自我的父亲和母亲。
Yeah, well, I came from mother and father just like most other people like I suppose.
我想起来了。首要的事应该是自我介绍——向我自己。
I might now introduce myself-to myself, first and foremost, it occurs to me.
在沉思中应该发现的重要一点是：真正“看见”观察者（你的自我）正是被观察者。
One of the main things to discover in meditating is to actually “see” that the observer (your ego) is the observed.
放眼未来，我们应该强调自我提升和提高生产能力，以减少对外来工人的依赖。
We will grow our economy by upgrading ourselves and raising productivity, reducing the need to import so many foreign workers.
头几天，我和太太自我安慰说，既然小兔子已经成年了，今后的清扫工作应该还应付得过来，不至于变得太累人。
For the first day or so, my wife and I consoled ourselves that, since the tiny rabbits were already fully grown, the clean-up activities would remain manageable and not become too tiresome.
因此从现在开始我们已经认识到了进行自我推销是有必要的，那么我们应该从哪里开始呢？
So now that we’ve established that self-promotion is a good thing, where do we start?
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