第三种类型的反馈是不确定，当其他人没有通过中立的答复来回应你的自我认知时，就会发生这种情况。
The third type of feedback is disconfirmation, which occurs when others fail to respond to your notion of self by responding neutrally.
其中一种开始的方法是回应你自己的借口。
歌唱吧，群山将会回应你。
现在，我来回应你的问题。
它只是回应你的想法。
它并不是只对你做，或是说哦，是欧文·辛格，我要回应你。
It's not that it's doing it just for you, or like things, oh, you know, it's Irving Singer now, I'm gonna respond to you.
你对东西有爱，它们以同样的爱回应你，但它们为你做了些事情。
You have a love of the things and they don't love you in the same way, but they can do things for you.
还有作为这些事情的回应你所做的承诺，变成了你许可基础的一部分。
And all the commitments you make in response to these things become part of your licensing basis.
你传送一条信息，告诉大家你在哪儿，喝着什么，可也许没人回应你。
You send out a tweet explaining where you are and what you are drinking. Perhaps you get no response.
而当你用它来拨打用户服务热线时，回应你的很可能就是一个印度人。
Use it to phone a customer helpline and your call may well beanswered by an Indian.
当你的听众注意到你正在看他们，那就是鼓励他们用一些肢体语言来回应你。
When your audience notices that you're look at them, it encourages them to respond using facial gestures.
当你自己和你的生活目标完全一致时，客户和其他人将会以积极的方式回应你。
When you are full aligned with your life purpose, clients and other people will repsond to you in a postive way.
如果这个客服部门话费太长的时间去回应你的要求，或者它只是简单的和你交流几句，那就太晚了。
If the support department takes too long to reply to your queries, or if it takes you quite some time to simply get in touch with its operator, it might be too late.
他们不需要登录，他们可以直接通过电子邮件来回应，或从自动生成的网页上回应你的征询信息。
They won't need to sign in, and they can respond directly from the email message or from an automatically generated web page.
如果你希望谈谈你自己，你会发现先谈论另一个人会让他开诚布公地回应你的好意并向你问问题。
And if you want to talk about yourself, you'll find that putting the other person first actually opens him up to return the favor and ask you questions.
如果你帮助一个慈善机构，很有可能他们会积极回应你要求链接的请求，而且你可以自由选择锚文本。
If you help a charity, there is a good chance that in return they will respond positively to a request for a link, with the anchor text of your choosing.
依靠你所爱的人意味着当你喊他时他会回答，知道你对他或她是重要的，你是被珍视的，他会回应你的感情需求。
It means depending on a partner to respond when you call, to know that you matter to him or her, that you are cherished, and that he will respond to your emotional needs.
要是他们察觉到有人试图间接指使他们做事儿，他们会感到受人控制，绝不会照你说的做，而会充满愤怒的回应你。
If they perceive someone is trying to get them to do something indirectly, they feel manipulated and respond more resentfully than they would to a straightforward request.
设定一些基本的规则：为你的组织设定一些社会媒体的基本策略，以便清晰回应你听到的，并且这种方案已经获得内部支持。
Set some ground rules: Set a social media policy for your organization, so it’s clear how to respond to what you’re hearing - and what types of initiatives have internal support.
如果你说你只是不想弄脏我的购物袋而我用怀疑的态度回应你时，请相信那是因为我不想再累积越来越多的塑料袋了。
If I behave with skepticism when you say you didn't want to ruin my nice reusable bag, please remember that the point of a reusable bag is to help prevent me from accumulating more plastic bags.
尝试学习新的事物已经是半只脚迈入了成功。让你的抱怨稍稍停歇一会儿或者进一步从客观的角度来回应你的自我批评。
Trying or learning something new is often half the battle. Defer your criticism until later, or better yet, learn to answer your inner critic with an objective voice.
当你最终明白，宇宙只回应你的振动时，那么你就懂得对任何事来说，如果你是受害者，那仅仅是因为你只是提供了混乱无序的振动。
When you finally get it that the Universe is only answering your vibration, then you understand that if you are victim to anything, it's only your haphazard offering of vibration.
这听起来可能有些牵强，但情况很严重，需要一个紧急而富有想象力的回应：欢迎你提出任何想法。
This may all sound far-fetched, but the situation is serious and demands an urgent and imaginative response: any ideas you may have would be welcome.
回应信息迟钝不仅会损害你的声誉，还会影响你的生计。
A slow response to a message could hurt not only your reputation, but also your livelihood.
回顾这一天，你会发现骑马观赏野生动物将是你最接近于回应野性呼唤的一次体验，这是难以否认的。
Looking back on your day, you will find it hard to deny that a horseback Safari is as close as you will ever come to answering the call of the wild.
手术进行了几个小时，之后医生高兴地走了出去，说：“谢天谢地！你的儿子得救了！”然后不等病人父亲回应，他边向前跑边说：“如果你有任何问题，问护士。”
The surgery took some hours after which the doctor went out happy, "Thank goodness! Your son is saved!" And without waiting for the father's reply he carried on his way running by saying, "If you have any questions, ask the nurse."
手术进行了几个小时，之后医生高兴地走了出去，说：“谢天谢地！你的儿子得救了！”然后不等病人父亲回应，他边向前跑边说：“如果你有任何问题，问护士。”
The surgery took some hours after which the doctor went out happy, "Thank goodness! Your son is saved!" And without waiting for the father's reply he carried on his way running by saying, "If you have any questions, ask the nurse."
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