有时候是别人对我们做的事，有时候是我们对于自己做过或没做过的事情的自责，或者我们曾经有或者没有过的感觉。
Sometimes it is what others had done to us; sometimes it is our own self-reproach for things we had done or not done, feelings we have had or not had.
这世界上总是有很多很厉害的人，但是我们与他们所处的环境不同，所以我们没有必要非得让自己去与别人一争高下。
This world always have a lot of very powerful people, but we are in the different circumstances, so we do not need to let ourselves compete against others.
有些人要求高、有控制欲、想让别人做出那些我们以为理想的恋爱中应该发生的那些事情，但他们并没有意识到，这种“理想”是一种错误。
Some of us get demanding and controlling, wanting someone else to do what we think our ideal of romance should be, without realizing our ideal is misplaced.
没有法律强制执行尊重别人。然而，我们不能同其他人交往有一些规则的行为，规则，是由某种形式的社会共识。
There are no laws enforcing respect. Yet we cannot interact with others without some rules of behavior, rules that are set by some form of social consensus.
我们到底有什么问题呢？没有那么别人有什么问题呢？也没有。
What is wrong with us? Nothing. What is wrong with the other person?
当我们处于自尊自傲中时，会觉得自己比其他任何人都好——别人都没有价值，他们都要瞩目于自己、看到自己有多伟大多优秀。
In pride, we have a feeling we are better than anyone else — that nobody else counts and everybody has to look at us and see how wonderful we are.
管理咨询专家詹妮。 伦莉说：“太介意别人的看法对工作没有好处，勉强说得上好的话就是当我们必须积极面对的时候，我们开始有了反应；
"At best, " says management consultant Jennie Lumley, "worrying about what others think makes us reactive when we need to be proactive.
管理咨询专家詹妮。 伦莉说：“太介意别人的看法对工作没有好处，勉强说得上好的话就是当我们必须积极面对的时候，我们开始有了反应；
"At best, " says management consultant Jennie Lumley, "worrying about what others think makes us reactive when we need to be proactive.
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