我们无所不聊，然后本转向我，对我说：“我要说声谢谢。你救了我一命！”
We chatted about everything and then Ben turned to me. "I just want to say thank you," he said. "You saved my life!"
如果别人说的话你不喜欢，要说不。
不，不是你用在车上的花费（你也应该查看一下这些费用，重新评估你买新车的必要性，但那是另一个文章要说的！）
No, not the payments you make on your car (though you SHOULD be checking those, and re-evaluating your need for a new car, but that’s a whole other post!).
是的，你可能很想对她说这样的话，但你一定不要说，为什么不呢？
Yep, you'd like to say something to her like that, but you must not. Why not?
不，你要说什么？
也许吧，但是也有时候你需要说不：你可以是因为很忙，或者这个请求确实太难处理。
Maybe, but there are times in which you need to say no: you could be super busy, or the favour being asked might be far too dodgy.
如果你不想做一些事如参加聚会、接受义务或见一个人，只需要说“不，谢谢”。
If you don’t want to do something—go to a party, accept an obligation, meet someone—just say “no, thank you.”
对于分心的事情要说不。只关注于你生活里5项最重要的事情。
Say no to distractions and get serious about the 5 highest priorities of your life.
无论什么时候你都有权利说“不”，而不是一定要说“好的”。
You have a right to say no whenever there is no compelling reason to say yes.
如果你打算在某人的婚礼上拍视频……拍摄时不要说话。他们肯定不希望视频里有你评论的声音。
If you're going to take video at someone's wedding... shut up while filming. They really don't need your commentary.
你跟他说话时千万不要说不，否则就会遇到麻烦。
When ou talk to him, never say "no". It will get you into hot water .
要说重视荣誉-你肯定是在看那些过时的周六早晨的电影。那种荣誉已经一去不返了。
Value honor-you must be watching those old Saturday Morning movies. That honor thing is long gone.
不，先生，不要说：“我和其它人在一起时怎样才能成为自己”，你并不了解你自己。
No, Sir, do not say, 'How can I be myself with another?' - you don't know yourself.
只是要说不匹配，你不想继续这段关系。
Just say it's not a match and you don't intend to continue the relationship.
司各特·菲茨杰拉德：你不写作时因为你想要说些什么，你写作时因为你不得不说些什么。
You don't write because you want to say something; you write because you've got something to say.
当木星来临千万不要说“从来不”，这是真的即便你以前从来没得到过帮助。
Never say never when Jupiter comes knocking. This is true even if you've never had the help before.
如果偶然有人在预订什么东西时问及你的名，只要说“不”就好了。
If anybody randomly asks you for your first name while booking something JUST SAY NO.
你懂意思吗？不，你要说什么？
你知道我在说什么吗？不，你要说什么？
对自己说：我不会对自己想要说不的东西说好，是不是会让你感觉更好一些呢？
Say it to yourself: I don't say yes to things I want to say no to. Doesn't that feel good?
我尽力不触及他的隐私，但他却主动问道：“明知道是永别，却还要说再见，你曾经有过这样的经历吗？”
I tried not to intrude upon his privacy, but he welcomed me by asking, "Have you ever said goodbye to someone knowing that it would be forever?"
这并不意味着除了真正想做的事情之外，你对其它所有事情都要说不。
This doesn't mean that you should say no to everything except those few things you really want to do.
但是我还是要说，我真心觉得和一个让你觉得自己像坨屎或者压根不尊重你的人在一起，那只会更糟。
But still I have to say that, yes, my true belief is that being with somebody who makes you feel shitty or doesn't honor the person you are, is worse.
但是我还是要说，我真心觉得和一个让你觉得自己像坨屎或者压根不尊重你的人在一起，那只会更糟。
But still I have to say that, yes, my true belief is that being with somebody who makes you feel shitty or doesn't honor the person you are, is worse.
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