我可以教你们一些具体的做法，然而，最有效的方法让孩子们自己拿主意，并且注意观察孩子们对每一次的选择都有什么感觉以及他们的选择会使别人有怎样的看法。
There are some specific ways that I teach, however the most powerful way is to allow our children to make choices based on how each choice makes them feel and how their choice will make others feel.
我可以教你们一些具体的做法，然而，最有效的方法让孩子们自己拿主意，并且注意观察孩子们对每一次的选择都有什么感觉以及他们的选择会使别人有怎样的看法。
There are some specific ways that I teach, however the most powerful way is to allow our children to make choices based on how each choice makes them feel and how their choice will make others feel.
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