当你和某人交谈时，对方一眼不眨得盯着你，就是一种进攻性的表现。
When someone stops blinking and stares at you when you are talking it's a sign of aggression.
在第一则中，某人说了句不友善的话“我认为肥胖人士坐公共汽车时应买两张票”，接着是明显的沉默。
The first version described someone making an insensitive remark — "I think obese people should pay for two seats on the bus" — which was followed by an obvious silence.
我们越是怨恨，越是不原谅某人，我们就会变得越紧张、沮丧，并且对情况越来越持消极态度。
The more we concentrate our emotional energy on carrying a grudge and not forgiving someone, the more likely we are to become anxious, depressed and feel negatively about the general situation.
那些不畏艰险追随某人的想法——友谊和爱的真谛——将会被认为是荒唐、不酷和无意义的，这才是需要担心的。
The fear is that the idea of sticking with another through thick and thin – the very essence of friendship and love – will come to seem absurd, uncool, meaningless.
迷信：在演出前祝某人‘好运’是不吉利的。
Superstition: To wish someone ‘Good luck’ before a show is bad luck.
迷信：在演出前祝某人‘好运’是不吉利的。
Superstition: To wish someone 'Good luck' before a show is bad luck.
这种爱是无条件的关怀，它没有极限，也不附加条件：全心全意地爱着某人。
This love is unconditional affection with no limits or conditions: completely loving someone.
如果你不想做什么事——比如参加聚会，接受个任务，去见某人——就去说“不，谢谢。”
Learn to say no. If you don't want to do something—go to a party, accept an obligation, meet someone—just say “no, thank you.
如果你不咬你的指甲，我可以向你保证知道某人谁做它。
If you don't bite your nails, I can assure you know someone who does it.
多少次，你因为某人不履行其职责而烦恼，因为孩子不听话而烦恼，因为伴侣或朋友不遵守诺言而烦恼？
How many times have you gotten upset because someone wasn't doing their job, because your child wasn't behaving, because your partner or friend wasn't 1 living up to his or her end of the bargain?
如果你想要激发某人像更好的方面改变，那么就要激励他们，而不是用“我不指望像你这样的好人有这些”这样的句子。
If you want to motivate someone to change for the better then don't put them down but instead use phrases like "I don't expect this from a good person like you".
有时候当你对于某人希望去做某件事情说“不”时，他们将会让你感到愧疚。
Sometimes when you say "no" to something that someone wants you to do, they'll make you feel guilty.
单凭“感化”是不可能取得成功的，如果某人不遵循核心的架构准则，你就必须以某种形式去敲打敲打他……这就是所谓的管治。
You can't "influence" your way to success, you have to have some kind of hammer drop on somebody's head if they don't follow the core architectural principles…it's called governance.
你可以从小事做起，比如跟陌生人说话或者告诉某人你的真实感受，如果平常你会对这件事情犹豫不决，那么现在你就要勇敢的面对，并且实际的行动起来。
You can start small by talking to stranger or telling someone how you really feel when you would normally hold back.
如果某人不希望听到道歉，不要强迫给出。给他们时间，最终他们会感受到。
If someone does not want to hear an apology, do not force it. Give them time they will come around eventually.
例如，我们都会同意如果我们能够通过撒谎而使某人不至受伤，那么使人免受伤害的义务就比说实话的义务更重要。
For example, most of us would agree that, if we can save someone from serious injury by lying, then we have more of an obligation to save someone from injury than we do to tell the truth.
想念某人总会一天天好过起来的的，由于固然离上次见面又多了一天，可离下次见面不又近了一天么？
Missing someone gets easier every day because even though it's one day further from the last time you saw every single other it's one day closer to the next time you will.
也许是参加主张性课程的时候了，学习你可以舒适地说”不“，学会承认某人在对一个对你根本就是不好的方式行动。
Perhaps it is time for classes in assertiveness, where you can comfortably learn to say "no", and to recognize when someone is behaving in a way that is just no good for you.
我们将心比心一下，如果在某人生病的时候，让你去照顾她，你会愿意吗?不！
We care about, if when someone is ill, let you to take care of her, would you be willing to?
某人在给你面试不代表着他们是一位合格的面试官。不要让他们的无知破坏你的面试、妨碍你获得这份工作的机会。
Just because someone is interviewing you, doesn't mean they're a good interviewer. Don't let his ignorance sabotage your interview or your chances at landing the position.
如果你打算在某人的婚礼上拍视频……拍摄时不要说话。他们肯定不希望视频里有你评论的声音。
If you're going to take video at someone's wedding... shut up while filming. They really don't need your commentary.
有这样一个例子：某人表面上看或许一整天都不眠不睡，但只要还没得到灵性上的启蒙，此人其实仍在睡觉。
The example is given that a person may apparently abstain from sleep all day, but as long as he is not spiritually enlightened he is actually sleeping.
私房钱指某人偷偷地将钱留起来并希望永远没人知道，尤其不希望他的伴侣知道，因为他是有目的的。
Case-dough means that someone has some money secretly and would like to keep it permanently secret, especially he doesn't want his spouse to know it, because he has some purpose.
在这两个例子当中，某人教给孩子一条规定，但是，不准推搡之规定有一种“粘滞性”，一个人不遵守它也会遭到失败，即使某位权威人士支持推搡行为。
In both cases, somebody taught the child a rule, but the rule against pushing has a stickiness about it, one that resists coming unstuck even if someone in authority countenances it.
假如你一旦发现新的某人我知道他对你来说是最好的因为如果他不这样。
If you should ever find someone new, I know he'd better be good to you. 'Cause if he doesn't.
当某人爱和你争吵它的时候不思索作为一个人或你的愿望的你价值。
When somebody falls out of love with you it does not reflect upon your value as a person or your desirability.
因此，冷战的要求是技能，使销售拜访某人谁是不指望你。
So cold calling is the skill of making a sales call to someone who is not expecting you.
因此，冷战的要求是技能，使销售拜访某人谁是不指望你。
So cold calling is the skill of making a sales call to someone who is not expecting you.
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