我的幸福别人带不走,别人带走的不是我的幸福。
I do not take the well-being of other people go, I do not take away other peoples well-being.
弗雷德里克森告诉我:“这不是欧洲人的幸福感所能比拟的。”
Fredrickson tells me, "It's that it's not matched by eudaimonic well-being."
我看到人们浪费时间最多的地方,也是他们降低生产率和效率的地方,而且最终他们的幸福也会在“是”与“不是”之间徘徊。
Where I see people waste the most amount of time, where they reduce their productivity and efficiency and ultimately their happiness is from vacillating between just two words: "Yes" or "No."
我和露西被领养后,在一个家庭呆了5年,那是我呆的时间最长的地方。那不是个幸福的家。
The longest I stayed in one place was when Lucy and I were fostered for five years - but it wasn't a happy house and when I dared to speak out, my bags were packed and I was gone.
在这个“寻找幸福”的课堂里,我在唤醒一种叫“乐观”的能量。我希望,至少,这样的疗方也算是良药一剂,如果这不是治疗,那我为何可怜到要来这里寻找解决中年危机的方法呢。
I summoned a senseof optimism about this ’happiness’ class and hoped that it might at least be asalve, if not a cure, for how poorly I’d been handling the approach into middleage.
我既是幸福的,也不是不幸的,既是兴奋的,也是沮丧的,在最为矛盾的和谐中,我被快乐与绝望压垮。
I am simultaneously happy and unhappy, exalted and depressed, overcome by both pleasure and despair in the most contradictory harmonies.
那时我的生活被不知过了多少量的烟酒给淹没了——它们当然不是幸福的产物!
This time it was littered with ridiculous amounts of cigarettes and alcohol–not exactly a prescription for happiness!
“我不知道他们是不是真的幸福,”她继续说道,“有时候我会想要和他们一样的生活,但是我不能和一个我不爱的人一起生活。”
"I don't know if they are really happy," she said. "There were times I wanted to have a good life like them, but I can't live with a person I don't love."
服务别人,而不是被别人服务,正是我幸福的来源。
It's about serving others, not being served. That's where my happiness comes from.
我对你了解的时间并不是太久,但你看起来酷极了,我不太相信你与男友在一块是幸福的。
I haven't known you for that long, but you seem really cool, and you haven't convinced me that you're happy with your guy.
如果我百分之百的诚实,我会承认在大学里学到的最有用的技能可能就是怎样跟女孩子搭讪(这当然是一种通往幸福和成功的重要技能,但并不是我应该去大学里学习的东西。)
Lately, I’ve been simultaneously using less and less of what I learned in school while discovering more and more skills that are vital to success which were never even offered in school!
我错过的不是你的爱,而是我一生的幸福。
如果你的身后也有这样的一双眼睛,我想,你是幸福的,不是吗?
If you have this behind a pair of eyes, I think you'll be happy, is not it?
我希望你幸福,即使我不是这个幸福里的一部分。
I hope you happiness, even if I am not part of this happiness.
世间最珍贵的,不是得不到的和已失去的,而是现在我在手中的幸福。
The world's most precious and not get and has lost, but now I am happy in the hand.
希:我不是让你难过,我亲爱的。我只希望你真的幸福。
ASHLEY: I didn't mean to make you sad my dear. I never want you.
到了结局,我才明白,我不是你要的幸福。
我开始明白追寻幸福并不是无足轻重的想法,它值得被尊敬,也是必要的。而且很多人甚至不会想到这件事。
I've come to believe that seeking happiness is not a frivolous pursuit. It's honorable and necessary. And most people forget even to think about it.
我知道你听到这些一定会很高兴,你很愿意看到我们十分幸福的,不是吗?
I know you are very happy, you'd like to see that we are happy, is that right?
“幸福不是拥有你想要的,而是珍惜你所拥有的。”我还是小孩儿时,就记得这句话。这绝对是真理,至理。
"Happiness is not having what you want, but having what you have. " That's a quote that I remember from a little boy. It's true, very true.
为你落第一滴泪,故事到最后总会落幕,我真心的付出却不是你要的幸福。
Trails in a drop of tears for you, the story to the end always end, I sincerely pay is not the happiness you want.
我希望你幸福,即使我不是这个幸福里的一部分。
我想要你幸福,不论你的幸福是不是我给的。
生活黑客(至少对我而言)就是一位十字军战士,不是为了财富征战,而是为了更好的、更为幸福的、更品德高尚的生活。
Life hacking (at least to me) is a crusade not for riches, but a better, happier, more virtuous life.
幸福如人饮水,冷暖自知。你不是我,怎知我走过的路,我心中的乐与苦。
Happiness like water, affair. How do you know the way I walk, the joy and pain in my heart.
此外,我完全相信,幸福很大程度上取决于我们想要的而不是父母想要的东西。有些父母总是活活。
Besides, I'm fully convinced that being happy largely depends on what we want rather than what parents want. Some parents always live.
倒不是因为我感谢从那里得到了幸福才这样说的。
It is not of gratitude for the happiness I have to thank the place for that I'm saying all this.
倒不是因为我感谢从那里得到了幸福才这样说的。
It is not of gratitude for the happiness I have to thank the place for that I'm saying all this.
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