首先她们懂得爱自己，一个不爱自己的女人更不可能好好地去爱别人。

First of all, they know how to love themselves, a woman who does not love her is more likely to love others.

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首先，如果可能的话她们穿着打扮看起来应该像成年的伴娘。

First of all, if possible make them look all alike with the grown up ones.

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首先，她们的过去必须被保密，否则她们会遭受污蔑永不能结婚。

First, their past must be kept secret, for otherwise they will be stigmatized and can never marry.

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