因此，如果你一开始就表现出极大的耐心，并且对他的行为表示理解，然后对他报以一丝甜甜的微笑，随口加上一句“好吧，随你咯。”或许，诚实的讲，他们做好准备了就会来到你的身边对你敞开心扉。

So, if you keep patience in the start and show them support, by just giving them a sweet smile and saying, "Okay", they might come and discuss it with you, honestly, when they are ready.

youdao

做让你开心的事，因为到最后，即使你的决定符合逻辑也会想放弃，然后追随你的心。

Do what makes you happy. Because at the end of the day, even if you follow logic, you still want to quit and follow your heart.

youdao