你有那么痛吗？

Does it hurt you so much?

youdao

我并没有用力爱你，怎么我心那么痛。

I did not force love you, how my heart so pain.

youdao

看到一切关于你的消息，我还是那么痛。

To see all the news about you, I still so pain.

youdao

Well, if that's right, and if we then realize that there's nothing I can do about the fact that I'm going to die, then perhaps some of the sting, some of the bite, is eliminated.

如果那是对的话，如果我们意识到,我们无法改变我们会死去的事实，那么也许有些刺痛，有些痛苦便消除了。

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