这些角色并不是前后一致的，不管它们有多迷人你都无法慢无目标飞向四面八方而同时过一种完整丰富的生活。

These roles are not consistent. You can't be flying off in countless directions, however appealing they are, and at the same time live an integrated, fruitful life.

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他站起来，热情地握着文尼的手：“我听说你是一个有才华的年轻女子，我发现你也很迷人很聪明。”

He got up and shook Vinnie's hand warmly, "I've heard that you are a talented young woman, and I have found you charming and intelligent as well."

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而现在呢，游戏画面精细而迷人，你会发现自己可以在屏幕上从容地与敌人进行周旋。

Now…the graphics are so detailed and engaging, you’ll find yourself ducking out of the way of on-screen adversaries.

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Of course it happens, but much more common is somebody you already know, somebody you have seen repetitively you suddenly find attraction-- attractive and a relationship forms. Okay?

这种情况当然会发生，但是更为常见的是,你遇到一个已经相识的人，这个人，你看到过很多次,突然间，你发现-,对方非常迷人，并开始和他交往？

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