爱与恨之间不可能存在合一，而头脑却试图找到和建立的这种合一。
Between love and hate there can be no unity, and yet it is what the mind is trying to find and establish.
这种合一的渴望包含了给予和接受这两个方面，相爱的人们毫无保守地把自己给予对方，同时又期望完完全全地接纳对方。
This one includes a desire to give and receive these two aspects, there is no conservative people love to give each other their own, while at the same time totally accept each other's expectations.
尽管这似乎符合一个崇高的目标，但这种“人民的政策”策略很少奏效，而且往往适得其反。
While this may seem justified by a noble goal, such "policy by people" tactics rarely work, and often backfire.
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